The Life House Saved My Life: Lily’s Story

This Christmas, Life is asking for your support to help provide safe housing and practical support for pregnant women and mothers facing homelessness like Lily*.

I don't know what I'd do if I wasn't in the Life House. It's saved my life.

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After fleeing domestic violence with her young daughter, Lily* was forced to spend months moving around temporary accommodation until she moved into a Life House. This is her account of how Life was there for her.

I fled domestic violence

“Hi my name is Lily* I currently live in a Life house. Before moving into the Life house I lived in a hostel and before that a B&B.

I fled domestic violence with my daughter. If the Life house wasn’t around I don’t know where I would be -probably still in the hostel, which was vile. It was mixed with men (which I think was wrong) and you see some nasty stuff.

I finally feel safe

In the Life house I feel safe and at ease. I can’t thank them enough for letting me in, me and my daughter have a place we can call home for a little while until we get our forever home.

The support I’ve had from my support worker have been amazing! Whenever I need them they are there for me, life before was horrendous and the Life house was my escape.

So thankful

I truly am so thankful that places like this exist for young women. I’ve met some lovely ladies and my daughter has made some friends. To know I have a safe place to go home to is so comforting. We need more homes like this for women across the country. They do a fantastic job keeping girls like me safe and off the streets.

We can only continue supporting women in their unexpected pregnancy journeys with your help. If you can spare anything at all, women, children and future generations all over the UK will benefit from your generosity today.

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If you or someone you know needs help:

Seeing her happy makes me happy.

My daughter loves it. We have a huge bed to share – she thinks we’re in a hotel, she loves sleeping with me! Her words are “mummy we can sleep together all the time I love it when I can cuddle you in bed”. Seeing her happy makes me happy. 

I don’t know what I’d do if I wasn’t in the Life house. It’s saved my life.”

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